appearance isnt what its cracked up to be ;

ask this question to yourself ?

do more people want to act like you ;

or look like you ?

what i dont understand these days is that what people would do just to look good ;

i mean what defines looking "good" ?

if God made you a certain way then isnt that good enough ?

why must you change yurself just to look good ;

i mean i do it sometimes by wearing makeup or wearing something that might reveal a little too much ;

but to the point where you harm your body by going to tanning beds, starving yourself, getting surgery ?

thats NOT going to make you look bettuh ;

if anything it will make you look worse ;

i mean some people do look better with breast implants or getting tanner . . .

but really ? there was a reason why you had a 32 a cup or a reason why you were pale ;

what does self-confidence mean ?

realistic confidence in one's own judgment, ability, power, etc. ;

when you start thinking you look "good" is when others will think the same ;

because confidence does attract the opposite sex ;

but not to the point when you start getting cocky && being in denial ;

being conceited would be having extruh baggage && you wearing a bikini ;

having confidence would be having extruh baggage && wearing a one suit ;

&& lacking confidence would be having extruh baggage && wearing shorts with a big tee over your bathin suit ;

since the difference ?

i hate it when people put up a front ;

alot of those people who act hard are really soft && sensitive ;

when people say hurtful things dont try to front && act like it didnt hurt you ;

instead of "acting" get some confidence && make those words NOT hurt you ;

i mean when people say you look ugly or say your fat ;

if YOU know your not ugly && not fat then who are they to say otherwise ?

but if you really think your not all that pretty makeup wont hurt but lets not get obesseive with it ;

if you think your fat excercise wont hurt you ;

most of the people who think they are all that && they think they're sexy are usually the ones with the lowest self-esteem ;

people who just bump their gums && love to talk ish

are usually the ones who are all bout talk && not backing it up ;

look if you cant fight dont act like you can ;

[trust im talking from exprience but at least i've learned my lesson unlike other people]

i mean you probably dont wannuh look like a punk ;

but most of the time 2/3 you could of avoided the whole situation ;

dont put yourself in drama you dont belong it ;
or just dont even be involved in drama ;
just try to avoid it as much as you can ;

manyeee why do people think the way you dress && the type of swagg you have is sooooooooooooo important ?

because its NOT ;

yeaa its kool if you can put a nice outfit together && wear it ;

but if you not going to be a model or career in the fashion industry ;

then why the hell does it matter soo much ?

i know for a fact how cute you dress in high school wont matter when you grow up ;

but i bet what type of education you got out of it will ;

wearing the latest sb's or jays or rocking true religion is fly && all ;

but why doesnt anybody think getting straight a's is fly ?
to mehhh it is ;
its nice to add some spunk to yur outfit but not to the point when thats all you focus on ;

dont sit there && talk down on how bad someone dresses ;
if they didnt match or if their outfit isnt cute enough ;
if your not going to buy them clothes then why do you care ?
dont sit there && critize what someone wears ;
you never know if thats all they can afford ;
because i know at some point someone has talked down on your outfit && i know you didnt like it ;
so why do the same to someone else if you know exactly how they are feeling ?
that doesnt make any kind of sense to meh !
if you cant afford the latest things ;
then you DONT need them ;
lets not go rob a bank or steal some clothes from the mall ;
trust its not cute to have shoplifting on your record ;
because lately that seems to be the latest trend ;

but babyyy im not getting into that trend ;

look just be content with the way you look && the way you are !